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If your team isn’t stepping up, it’s not you.
Ownership isn’t something you demand. It’s something you design.
Many years ago, early in my leadership journey, I inherited a team that had just gone through a messy reorg.
They were burned out. Frustrated. Distrustful.
No one knew what success looked like.
Half the team was job hunting. The other half had mentally checked out.
I wanted to help, but I didn’t know how.
It was just a long list of priorities from my boss… and a team silently waiting for me to lead.
So I did what most well-intentioned managers do:
I jumped in. Solved problems. Sat in every meeting. Reviewed every doc.
Worked nights. Answered every message. Filled every gap.
I thought I was showing ownership.
But the more I did… the more dependent the team became.
I was solving everything.
They were solving nothing.
That’s when it clicked:
Ownership isn’t a trait your team either has or doesn’t.
It’s a culture you build.
And it starts with you.
But no one teaches you how to build that kind of culture.
You get promoted or handed a new team, and suddenly you’re responsible for performance, morale, and retention.
Yet you’re left to figure it out on the fly, with no real support.
So here’s what most managers don’t get taught, but absolutely need:
How to build trust with a team that doesn’t know you
How to align everyone around a shared definition of success
How to shift from reactive mode to strategic leadership
How to coach your team to take ownership—so you’re no longer the bottleneck
That’s exactly why I created The Ownership Accelerator.
It’s an 8-week leadership development program for tech industry managers who’ve recently taken on new or expanded teams.
You’ll learn how to build trust, create clarity, and establish a culture of ownership, so your team becomes more proactive, self-sufficient, and high-performing.
✅ Live teaching
✅ Live coaching
✅ Tactical tools you can use immediately
✅ Lifetime access to community support
This isn’t a passive experience. It’s built for managers who are ready to lead differently.
And for a short time, I’m opening up Founding Member enrollment to a small group of early participants who want to shape the program from the ground up.
If you’re leading a new team and carrying more than you should, this was built for you.
📌 Want to see what it’s all about?
Click here to read the one-pager and see if it resonates.
Got questions? Just hit reply—I’d love to chat.
Cheers,
Jeff